The joining together of intimate partners into one relationship is often celebrated by a lot of people. In some societal set up, like the Africans to be precise, marriage shows increase in responsibilities which translates to increase in social rank. Like any other aspect of life that may not go well according to expectations, other marriages end up not being fruitful, and the final solution for both partners is to part ways. Separation of the couple is brought about by the feeling that they cannot co-exist with one other and thereby decide to do away with their marriage. Some family members may fail to accept their current predicament even though such action was meant for the better of all of the members.
It is the off-springs of the parents that must bear the brunt of the divorce between their parents. At most times, the off-springs are usually at a tender age to comprehend the issues their parents are going through. These children will, however, feel the effect of the divorce in the form of reduced parental care and affection. The outcomes of such bad relationships manifests into the children in the form of brutal mental tortures that tend to haunt the children. The state of low morale, outrageous conduct and possible entry into substance abuse characterize such behavior.
Each partner at a personal level can feel the effects resulting from instances of separation Both partners are individuals who at one time had strong mutual feelings for each other. These emotions are not likely to fade away quickly as much as a person may yearn for them to do so.
The feeling of a person not being able to provide some form of help to the family when needed especially with regards to the children is a situation that one may not want to be in. Going through these forms of mental distress is usually a tough and complex path that is not easy at all.
People of diverse backgrounds are united through the act of marriage that connects people from the different families. The various kins who are tied by the marriage agreement are expected stand with one of their own thereby bringing a setback to the wonderful relations that had been built. Neither of these groups want to be steered into any kind of relation with that of the different view because of the bad communication channels that has developed between these parties. Divorce is therefore always expected to drag along with it some negative implications that may prove destructive to a person according to how it is handled. People are therefore often advised to consider such effects before they call it quits.